Celebrity police woman, Dolapo Badmus has advised ladies to stay away from the idea of being a man’s baby mama because it’s not worth it.
According to her, having a baby for a man is no guarantee of a place in his heart.
The police public relations officer also spoke of the tough time she had settling an issue between a baby mama and her baby daddy.
Dolapo Badmus shared on Instagram:
”Warning to young girls out there: STOP opening your body and soul to a man that don’t really care about you! It’s injurious….some of you even go EXTRA Mile to become a baby mama thinking pregnancy will give you a place in his home and heart?
Hell NO! All you might achieve thereafter is to be tagged someone’s BABYMAMA! Is the title worth it? How can you debase yourself just to get an unconventional title of BABYMAMA When you can calm down and get your life moving forward!
Yesterday, i had cause to sort out Baby mama and sweet boy issue! It was tough…The only thing that the young girl could do was to cry and cry with the words “My Life is miserable”
Young girls please stop making your dear life miserable just because you want to be identified with a man when you can surpass him in all things if you work hard for yourself…..NOTE: Pregnancy don’t hold a man down, good values, moral and love do! Don’t be a BABYMAMA especially when you cannot feed yourself not to talk of an unborn child, it turns you to a nuisance.”
Dolapo Badmus to young girls: Being a baby mama is not worth it
Two months ago, Dolapo Badmus spoke about the trend whereby young ladies lust after internet fraudsters aka yahoo boys.
She advised young girls against dating and associating with Yahoo boys who are mostly known to engage in rituals that cost human life. According to her, associating with them is the fastest way to lose one’s life.
Her post was in reaction to an incident in which the daughter of a former deputy governor of Ondo state, Khadijat Adenike Oluboyo, was found dead and buried in the room of her boyfriend, Adeyemi Alao, after he used her for rituals.
Read her post below.
”SECURITY WARNING TO YOUNG LADIES OUT THERE: To you our dear ladies out there especially the younger ones, kindly be informed that associating and dating this so called “YAHOO BOYS” is the fastest way to loose your lives. you have all heard about several incidents involving young girls being killed for ritual purposes just for these boys to continue enriching themselves. Please note that the phone he bought for you, the clothes or car ? he spends that much to gift you or any other thing he gifts you that might have your life used as exchange. YAHOO BOYS from all indications now use blood to sustain or enrich their ill gotten wealth. My sincere advice to you all is to Pitch your tent with that hardworking young man that won’t amass wealth through illegal means, together you can build an enviable future. Remember your lives are precious, don’t lay it down on a platter of peanut? it is harrowing investigating waste of lives by this so called G guys! I sincerely sympathize ? with those families who by one way or the other has lost their daughters through association with the bad boys, may God give you fortitude to bear the loss.”