A Ghanaian gospel artiste, Esaaba Haizel has advised girls to date more than 2 men cos she believes it will give them the opportunity to not only have their needs catered for, but to also access them before picking the best for marriage. According to her, it is a complete waste of time dating only one man.
Esaaba Haizel however advised against having sex with the men.
Speaking on Abusua Fm, the Gospel artiste said,
“I advised young girls on my Facebook wall to have three to five men at the same time without having any s*xual intercourse with them.
“You just have to be firm not to sleep with them. Having multiple partners will help you to study them, then you let the rest go, by choosing just one. Why waste your time to date only one person?
“I’m saying this because you can’t have it all. One of the men would be interested in your business, one would be concerned about the food you eat on daily basis thereby supply your needs, the other will be interested in the shoes, makeups, clothing you wear, the list goes on”.
She quickly added that she is a Christian that is why she has given such important message which will not be given by even Pastors.
“I’m a Christian, is there something wrong with my advice to young ladies who aspire to marry? It’s a good advice your pastor cannot give you”.