Domestic Violence: Why You Should Never Say Never
The news currently making the rounds online is the marriage crisis Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe is facing. Well, trust us bloggers to milk the gist dry. This time around, wotzup.ng will be milking from a different angle with a bit of religious quotation.
Peter answered him, “Though they all fall away because of you, I will never fall away.”
I’m sure you read the above bible verse. That was Peter telling Jesus that he will never leave him even in the toughest times. Jesus replied and told Peter that he will betray him 3 times before the cock crows. Peter must have been enveloped by his zeal and love for Jesus that he thought he could face anything for him. Many of us have this same mindset. I can’t count the amount of comments I’ve read on social media from guys who boast that they can never beat their wife. Sometimes I wonder whether they drop those comments to get Likes from ladies or they are simply myopic. Majority of guys that beat their wife must have at some point kicked vehemently against domestic violence. But today, they are involved in it.
The essence of writing this is to let you know that the moment you make a boast is the moment Satan starts working towards how you will fail. Peter boasted that he will never deny nor leave Jesus Christ even in the hardest times. But when he came across a mob that would have carried out jungle justice on him, he denied Jesus 3 times to save his life. Satan starts working against you from the moment you utter that boastful statement. Below is an excerpt from an interview involving Mercy Aigbe’s husband, Lanre Gentry.
Is it true you always embarrass her in public?
Lanre: How can I embarrass my wife in public? I never do that because I respect her as a person, wife and mother. A short time ago, a blogger reported that I beat my wife. I was very angry because I could not understand why I would want to condescend that low. I don’t beat my wife and I have never beaten a woman. I don’t even know how to argue with people. Source: Naij
Did you read the above answer he gave to the question? Would you have believed that the same man will be the one to leave his wife looking awful in the below picture?
Some guys have even evolved from boasting that they can never beat their wife to bragging about how they will deal with any man that tries to beat their sister whom he married. I just laugh when I read such comments. Instead of you to caution your sister on how she’s going about behaving like a Slay Queen, you are here boasting. Don’t you know that the path of Slay Queen she’s toeing is the path that leads to domestic violence? Or aren’t all the Slay Queens getting beaten up or dumped these days e.g Mercy Aigbe, Tonto Dike, Toyin Aimakhu, Toke Makinwa, plus the ones afraid to come to public about it? You probably think you can fight or rich enough to bribe policemen to lock your sister’s husband up. Pray your sister doesn’t get married to a rich and corrupt Nigerian politician who can afford to lock your entire family up. You wont know when you will become politically correct.
Domestic violence is bad and Should not be condoned. But never say never. Just place your future marriage in God’s hands and beg him to control it for you.
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